Veterans day means different things to different people. Why it bothers me that people assume they should get FREE things on this day.
Before we begin, I want to clarify that I am a Veteran who served in the U.S. Navy in the early ’80s. Coming from a family with a strong military background, including retired military father and military veteran relatives, we hold military service in high regard. However, the focus of this article is not on military service itself, but rather on addressing the misconception that military service entitles individuals to free benefits.
While I was working in retail, I used to be bothered by individuals who would become upset, or even angry, when they were not offered a Military discount. This situation occurred yesterday while I was shopping. A woman at the checkout was swearing and shouting at the young cashier. The staff member had explained to the customer that she did not qualify for the veterans discount, as it was specifically for veterans.
The woman, with a flushed face and deeply moved, expressed, "No, I didn't serve, but my father did. Although he has passed away, I always make use of his discount." ... Excuse me?
The clerk, visibly upset, relented and granted her the 10% discount on her $30 purchase. I struggled to refrain from intervening to assist the employee. I was eager to inquire why the woman believed she deserved the discount. Did she think her father's military service entitled her to it? I was tempted to question whether her father enlisted with the expectation of receiving discounts at stores or complimentary IHOP breakfasts in the future.
I have encountered former military veterans who expressed disappointment or frustration over our lack of a year-round military discount. I would always acknowledge my own service and express gratitude for theirs. Some would assert that they were entitled to the discount. In response, I would clarify that I did not serve in the military for the sake of "FREE STUFF or DISCOUNTS," which typically resolved the issue.
I was amazed by the notion that certain people believed they were entitled to things simply because they had once made a commitment to military service.
I appreciate the gesture of business owners and companies who provide such offerings to show respect to veterans. It is a commendable act. Showing respect to veterans is a wonderful gesture, and I wish we had embraced it as a nation earlier in our history. I can recall how veterans returning during the Vietnam era were treated, as I am old enough to have witnessed it.
To conclude, I believe that most veterans are grateful for discounts and complimentary meals as a kind gesture, though they do not expect these perks. I remember when I was 17 at the recruiting station or 19 watching the sunset on a submarine tender, I was not thinking about freebies or discounts.
Addressing the woman mentioned earlier, you should feel ashamed of your actions! (I'm sure your father would not approve)
A heartfelt tribute to all veterans. Thank you for safeguarding this wonderful nation! Thank you for your dedication and sacrifice.
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